now I’m attractive?

Grief comes in waves

I’m not Superman

I want to do it all, but I cant 

about setting boundaries again

Setting boundaries during a tough time in life can be extra hard! 

my upbringing serves me well …today

I had an epiphany

about setting boundaries

are people thinking about roles in relationships

some people see relationship roles very oddly! 

Happy birthday? Daughter

3 years later and trying to use me

An unexpected text...

about researching a person before you try to sell them something

Don't try to sell me your coaching program when I have my own I am trying to sell! LOL 
And etc....

7 years later

Number One Show

Unfriending one of my first media clients

about others feelings

Navigating what you are going thru and who you can talk about it to.

getting up and out

James is changing and creating a habit! 
Music by James Lott Jr

Air conditioning

James finally got an AC unit!
Song by James Lott Jr

about me today

Mid august 2025 update! 

About online relationship sharing

When people go from single into a relationship and make all their post about the relationship. 

People do in Hollywood

An epiphany about friendship on a Sunday morning

JLJ has an ephipany on.... a sunday morning! 

getting older is a trip

Two guys and a mother

JLJ has three different things going on at the same time! 

about two people from my past

Two people come back into my orbit. 

James, I hope all is well

when I get this message from a friend, I share with you what I say now! 

Labels

JLJ answers a question about himself related to June's Pride month! 

about friends and politics

when a close friends politics and attitude drastically changes.

being asked out a certain way

Someone asked me out in a way that I am not completely comfortable with. 

about not telling me what I need

JLJ feels some poeple are well meaning but...

is going on with people

The Situation with a Friend

I thought my friend was missing. Here's the story! 

is different about birthdays these days

About Empathy

IS it gone???

Are you taking about. Men and women are different!

about all these online coaches

Are people losing their Compassion

I don't like what I am seeing out there! 

Monday thoughts

Random thoughts that are in my head! Happy Monday! 

Daddy

How the evolution of being older, hairier, and sometimes fatter has become sexy to a segment of society! 

Are people showing me

I'm encountering what I feel is strange behavior! 

Helps Me Through

Exactly what helps JLJ through life!